smartphone addiction

When I first started meditating it was a while before I could get myself into a daily practice. There were always hundreds of other things I could be doing. I could meditate or I could watch TV. I could meditate or I could do some more reading. I always thought, “If I skip this time, it won’t be that big of a deal.”

 

By Daniel Scharpenburg

 

“Diligence means joy in virtuous ways.

Its contraries have been defined as laziness,

An inclination for unwholesomeness,

Defeatism and self-contempt.”

-Shantideva, The Way of the Bodhisattva

 

Diligence is an important concept in meditation practice.

Actually it’s important to all aspects of the Buddhist path, but I’m going to talk here about how it relates to meditation specifically. I know how hard it is to establish and maintain a regular meditation practice.

Diligence is one of the six perfections, and something that often gets overlooked when we talk about meditation. There’s a whole chapter devoted to it in the classic Mahayana text The Way of the Bodhisattva by Shantideva.

It’s a very important virtue, and I’m going to tell you why. It was an important virtue to cultivate in the Buddha’s time and it still is today. Diligence represents continuing when things get difficult.

When I first started meditating it was a while before I could get myself into a daily practice. There were always hundreds of other things I could be doing. I could meditate or I could watch TV. I could meditate or I could do some more reading. I always thought, “If I skip this time, it won’t be that big of a deal.”

But, what does that line of thinking lead to? Not having a meditation practice.

So, I had to work at it. I had to cultivate diligence to make myself do it every day. Eventually I did, but it took a very long time. I had to pay close attention to the differences I feel when I don’t meditate for the day. It’s so easy to not meditate.

These days we have a lot more distractions than there were when I started meditating.

I can watch Netflix, I can check my Facebook (on my phone, which is always with me), I can listen to music on Pandora, or Podcasts (like the Tattooed Buddha Podcast, which comes out regularly).

Once in a while I do skip a meditation. And I always regret it. The world is a little bit harder to deal with on days when I don’t meditate. I feel the same way about working out (which I started doing in the last few months).

The time you spend meditating enriches the rest of your day. Some people say they have too much trouble quieting the mind or they’re too distracted meditate. If we cultivate diligence and just sit anyway, even when it’s hard, even when we don’t want to, it gets easier. The mind gets calmer.

So, be diligent, my friends.

 

Photo: source

Feature Photo: We Heart It

Editor: Dana Gornall

 

Did you like this post? You might also like:

 

Shamatha Meditation: How (& Why) to Begin a Simple Practice.

  By Daniel Scharpenburg   Shamatha is a style of meditation that is simple. The point of it is to free ourselves from delusion. We dwell in delusion all the time, but as long as we understand that and cultivate discipline, shamatha can help us transform...

A Meditation for Pets

  By Sensei Ken Madden I offer this as a gentle meditation style for people stuck at home but in the company of an animal friend, a pet, perhaps a dog or cat. We all have experience with the unconditional Love that our animal friends offer us. There is a Teaching...

Autistic with ADHD: Is Meditation Possible?

  By Johnathon Lee Everyone struggles with meditation, but ADHD can turn it into an all-out war with yourself. ASD + ADHD = WTF I have what the kids are calling AuDHD—Autism Spectrum Disorder and Attention-Deficit Disorder. No one spotted my ADHD when I was...

Zen Wannabe (The Hardest Part of Sitting)

 By Dana Gornall There's a secret that real writers know that wannabe writers don't, and that secret is this: It's not the writing part that is hard. What's hard is sitting down to write. What keeps us from sitting down is Resistance. ~ Steven Pressfield,...

Comments

comments