By Lisa Meade
One of the deepest skills I have worked on in the past years is that of silent listening—creating sacred peaceful space for one to share in.
Whether it be a story of pain or celebration, questions asked in anxious energy or demands made in frustration, or whispers spoken out loud of possible dreams or deep rooted fears, the blank space of silence is needed and appreciated.
I have had many mentors who have taught me to add to this silence the metta skill of having no opinion. If you are listening to someone and find that you are thinking of your answer, judging against your life experience, problem solving or offering sympathetic words of advice, you are not only failing to bring your fullest attention to the one sharing with you, you are muddying the energies instead of keeping the vibrations clean and open to an easy and gentle flow.
You can prevent the person who is sharing with you the opportunity to find their own clarity. You may be leaning against the very door that important lessons and messages are trying to come through.
As you listen with open ears, you listen with an open heart as well.
You can be fully present, be of love, see beauty in the darkness, witness hope where there was thought to be none and so much more. As a shaman I have learned this is my most valuable skill I can bring to my soul mentoring. Serving as witness to someone is a sacred honor. Often it is the exact medicine that they need most.
They don’t need rushing waves to come in and cleanse them. They don’t need someone verifying they have been in the perfect storm. They don’t need someone to help them bail the water out of their ship.
They need someone to listen; deeply, fully and openly so that both the listener and the speaker create an energetic still canvas. Within this sacred canvas possibilities surface, wisdom shines, healing is accessed and life unfolds. The uncomplicated-ness of it holds tremendous beauty. Its blankness beckons new creativity, opportunities and choices.
Keeping perceptions and opinions out of the communication is vital for the potential treasure trove of gold to be found.
In the silence one finds their answers, their insights, and their truth.
In the energetic exchange of the speaker and the listener the soul’s story is shared and witnessed.
The guides visit; the angels bless,
Spirit heals and the soul breathes it all in.
The alchemy is pure magic. It has stood the test of time; our ancestors listened with very different ears than most of us do today.
The silence seeks the gold and allows it to shine as brightly as it needs to.
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Editor: Sherrin Fitzer